“Who knows what pertains to the man except his spirit that is within? Similarly, no one knows what pertains to God except the Spirit of God. We have not received the spirit of the world but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand the things freely given us by God. ” (1 Corinthians 2:11-12)
The Spirit
of God within us is the only one who truly knows the depth of our heart and
soul. We will never know the depth of another human being’s soul. Even those
who are closest to us only reveal to us what they want us to know. When I judge
others I claim to know what is in another person’s heart. I claim to know why
the person is behaving in a certain way. And if I don’t approve of the behavior
I am often critical of them. But instead of being judgmental, I should take a
step back and trust that there is a reason that the person acted that way which
I know nothing about. Rather than being critical, I could reach out to them,
lending them a hand or be willing to listen to them. We all need to be heard
and sometimes just sharing with another person what we our struggling with makes
the burden a little easier. Paul speaks about us having “the mind of Christ.” If this is so, then my behavior should
reflect that. Christ always looked on others with compassion and I must do the
same. If I take the time to understand one’s behavior, I will be less
judgmental.
We are given
wisdom so that we “may understand the
things freely given to us by God.” But God doesn’t spoon feed this to us. We need
to seek wisdom by spending time in prayer and listening to God speaking to us
and we can only do this when we quiet our hearts. We need to delve into
scripture and learn how the prophets, apostles and disciples lived their lives
for God. The lives of the saints also give us guidance. We need to seek wisdom
so that we can discern the will of God. Paul goes on to say, “the one who is spiritual can judge
everything.” He is not talking about man’s judgment of things that is often
harsh and unforgiving, but with the Spirit of God. When we do this, our eyes
are opened and we can see things from God’s perspective which is always one of
love. God always welcomes a humble and contrite heart and we must do the same.
We need to see the good in all people because Christ resides in each of us. A
friend told me the other day that we should reflect back on all the people that
God placed in our life each day and see if we recognized Christ in each of these
people or if we failed to do so. Not to see if they were Christ-like in their
actions but if we were blind to recognizing that Christ dwells in them. He is
there, sometimes we just have to look a little harder.
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